rhodri2112 ([info]rhodri2112) wrote,
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My Response to Liam
Greetings all,

I warn you, there’s an epic entry behind the cut, in full Rhodri style. I'm an academic, so I cannot say anything in two words where fifty will suffice :)



I responded to a post on [info]liamstliam’s LiveJournal about his question to me about my opinion on fencing. My response was:

“I perceive fencing to have harmed the SCA as a whole, not simply Calontir.

Fencing promotes divisiveness, selfishness, and misogyny. I say this not because "fencers are bad" or "fighters are good" but because both the historical culture that fencing derives from and the nature of fencing in the SCA make people act more in those ways than if fencing did not exist.

Individual fencers are generally wonderful people, as are most people in the SCA, but fencing tears at all of our souls.”

Not surprisingly, this generated a lot of response. I thought rather than simply adding to Liam’s huge list of responders that I would simply put my response here and start a new thread.

First, some background about myself since most of the responders have no clue who I am. I started playing in the SCA in 1997 in Calontir. While I have only lived in Calontir per se, I have traveled a goodly amount throughout the Knowne World. I am now currently in the midst of my fourth full summer in Ealdormere. I have been to fighter practices in Calontir, Ealdormere, Ansteorra, Outlands, Atlantia, and the East. I have been to events, not counting wars, in Calontir, Ealdormere, Drachenwald, Ansteorra, Outlands, Meridies, Northshield, and the East. In terms of wars have been to Pennsic 8 times, Gulf Wars 8 times, Estrella 8 times, Trillium War 3 times, Armorgeddon 3 times, and Lilies 8 times. I say all this not to say that I’m better than anyone, nor that I am the most well-traveled person out there, but merely to point out that I am not simply a Calontir guy who has his head in purple sand and can’t see because of it. I do feel that I have some perspective of the SCA as a whole.

I have fenced before and in fact fenced some once I had joined the SCA, though not in the SCA context. I like fencing; in fact I like it a lot. It’s a great sport. My fencing has helped my fighting, and if you watch my fighting you can sometimes see the fencing influences in my style. Initially, I was all in favor of adding fencing to the SCA and was all in favor of doing work to bring it to Calontir. Even since my opinions have changed, I have brought water to fencers on the field at multiple events, and I have heralded fencing tournaments.

What changed?

Well, it happened as I traveled about the Knowne World. The first time I came up to Ealdormere in 2003 is when I started to see the “divisiveness, selfishness, and misogyny” that I referenced in my response to Liam’s post. I must emphasize that it was after I started leaving Calontir that my opinions changed on fencing. During the time that I was the most insular of Calontir loyalists that I have ever been I was in favor of fencing in the SCA but now with my horizons broadened I have become staunchly against it.

Having told you about my background, I will now proceed to first expand on the response to Liam’s comment, and then I will make specific responses at the end of the post to those good gentles who responded to me.

Divisiveness. Sadly, this is the easiest one to prove. The simple fact that we’re having a discussion with as much emotion and deeply seated opinions on both sides is merely one point. Given the vehemence of some of the responses to my post, I suspect some of you are going to be pre-disposed to dislike me. I find that sad. I try to be a genial, respectful, generous person. Liam and the others on the list who know me can attest to my success or failure in these attempts. I hope that no one dislikes simply because of my position on fencing, but if there are people who do not like me because of my position on fencing, as opposed to me being a jerk, then I consider that divisive. In short, I believe that the discussion on fencing in the SCA has hurt friendships that either existed or might have existed, simply because two people on different sides with deeply held convictions often struggle to overcome some of those feelings.

Divisiveness also extends to the resources available to the SCA. Many of you who responded are probably from larger kingdoms than Calontir, so perhaps you’re not aware of the resource challenges that fencing adds.

Both fighting and fencing need a fairly large area to fight in, and not every event can provide particularly large spaces, especially during inclement weather. This means that either fencers or fighters, depending upon who comes to the event in greater numbers, have to make do with less than the other. If 35 fencers come to fight at an event and they’re squished on to a small list field to make room for 16 fighters, then that is an inefficient distribution of resources and the fencers, in this case, have to make do with individually less space. Vice versa if the numbers are reversed. One can suggest that the events be held in sequence as opposed to parallel, but that rarely works smoothly as whichever goes first will almost surely go longer than originally scheduled, forcing the other to wait to start and either hurry to finish in time or force other things such as court or feast to be delayed. We all know “SCA time,” but there’s no need to add more things to mess with an event schedule.

Both fighting and fencing need waterbearing support. If this is done in the same room as the above situation suggests, that’s not a big deal, but if they’re in two separate places than the waterbearer in charge has to split his or her resources, which is not necessarily easy.

Most importantly, fighting and fencing need fighters and fencers. In smaller groups, there are simply not enough people to support both activities. Any division of effort tends to drastically hurt the ability of all to participate in either sport. If you have 4 people come to a practice, 2 to fence and 2 to fight, then you essentially have no practice at all. Small shires do not always have the ability to support both. I’ve even been to baronial practices in two kingdoms where the practice did not happen because there were neither enough fencers nor enough fighters to make it worthwhile. And this was with an out of kingdom person, myself, in armor and ready to go.

The traditional response to the above argument about resources is to suggest that fencing will bring in its own resources. More people will participate, for example, if fencing is allowed. Yet, while more people do participate, it does not seem to suffice to replace the entirety of the siphoned off resources, as evidenced by the failure of baronial, much less shire-level, practices. Also, waterbearing resources and field resources are finite, meaning that even with new participants, these might not be sufficient to provide for all of the resources.

For example, if there is fighting and fencing in two separate areas, then the waterbearers probably need two separate shade-flys or pavilions. Is the addition of, say, 10 new people who only do fencing worthy of forcing a barony of 50 other people to buy a new pavilion? If not, how about 20? What’s the break point? If there are 10 new people who come only because of fencing, are there also the 2-3 new people who will volunteer to provide them water and the 2-3 fencing marshals? Can you even get 10 people in a group that only play because of fencing? Not often, I suspect.

In shires and small baronies I can almost guarantee that the population level is such that a group simply cannot add enough population and financial resources to balance out those that fencing requires. They may, and often do, find enough resources to make things work, but I suspect often this requires more effort and sacrifice from all, not simply fencers, than if fencing did not exist.

For example, in my shire I’m the only warranted marshal. As a PhD student I barely have time to marshal the fighting I’m supposed to. There is no guarantee that adding fencing to my shire will automatically provide a marshal for fencing, meaning that either I devote more time to the SCA and less to my real life or fencing does not have a marshal in my shire. Just to let you know, my fighting has dropped from 5-10 times a month to 2 times a month while I’m working on my PhD. I simply cannot add another set of responsibilities to my life. You say that this is anecdotal evidence and my use of synecdoche is inappropriate. Perhaps you’re right, but my experience traveling to other groups suggests that my evidence is supportable.

There’s another point to this particular discussion on resource management which I will discuss when I get to selfishness below.

In short, fencing is divisive because we have different ideas on the issue and because fencing takes away from the resources that would have been devoted to fighters. How many resources should be devoted to fighting? How many to fencing? This is an argument that can never be answered completely, and one that will always divide us. Hence adding fencing is, almost by definition, divisive.

Selfishness. I said that fencing in the SCA has both from the historical culture fencing derives from and the nature of its implementation in the SCA promotes selfishness. Here’s how.

First, fencing is at its core a one-on-one martial art. It is a great martial art, and as I mentioned above I love it. But while there are fencing melees, those that I have seen generally boil down to many one-on-one bouts with the occasional two-on-two matches. The nature of the martial art does not lend itself to teamwork. It can be done, but what I’ve read of the fectbuchs had very little on teamwork, and more on body position, balance, and mental clarification. This was an art designed not for the battlefield, but for the duel.

Duels are, almost by definition, between individuals. Yes, you can have groups that hate each other, but that’s less about dueling and more about battles. It’s a subtle but important difference. This difference essentially is the difference between a soldier and a warrior. One can be both, but ask any serving member of the military the difference between the two. In short, the soldier can only succeed as part of a team, and a warrior can generally not work well with a team. Facing a team of soldiers, an equal number of warriors is outclassed because soldiers create something more than the sum of their parts. Fencing, as a dueling sport, trains warriors, not soldiers, meaning that they are trained as individuals.

And as individuals they are trained in the SCA to be selfish. I have had multiple fencers tell me that one of their favorite parts of fencing tournaments is the boasting about themselves and the insulting (in friendly fashion of course) of their opponents. I was shocked with what I heard on the fencing field at Pennsic when I was in hearing distance. Occasionally, there are times when heralds are set up to boast about the prowess of a fighter, but not routinely. The response when I asked was that this was part of the romantic culture that they liked, the dashing derring-do of the swashbuckling period...

Which was essentially a selfish period where fencers had a vested interest, most notably their lives, to be the proudest and brashest. Those can be survival traits, in that they can often either intimidate their opponents or get them angry enough to forget their proper movements. That being said, these are attributes that tend to promote selfishness. Not every fencer in period thought this way, but pretty much all fechtbuchs talk about seizing mental control of the fight and asserting your ego on the fight to be successful.

This is not to say that such feelings do not exist among fighters. They do, and I dislike it when I see a fighter act selfishly. No doubt that the tournament culture often breeds such selfishness. My statement was not to say that fighting cannot promote these things too. My statement merely said that fencing promotes selfishness, and it does. It is a me, me, me sport only.

Yet at least one part of fighting actively works to train teamwork, melee combat. This is emphasized in Calontir, but I know many groups across the Knowne World that work hard to place themselves in a larger context, to subsume their own personal glory to the success of the team. The Lion-Dragon group headed by Sir Jean-Paul de Sens in Ansteorra is one example (yes, I know JP fences, but I'll bet that his formative years in the SCA were primarily fighting) and I can think of a variety of others groups who emphasize teamwork.

Fencing melees, however, do not work well with groups. The reason why fighting has the ability to work in groups is because the weapon systems are sufficiently different to provide certain tactical situations where each weapon system is king. Sometimes it's spears, sometimes it's polearms, sometimes it's scutums, sometimes, it's smaller shields, and so on.

With fencing, there is essentially only one range, and that is of the sword. You say you can add firearms. Sure, and fighters can add combat archery. The tactical equations do shift, but not on the basis of the primary weapon systems. You say you can train next to another and work more smoothly in tandem. Indeed you can. But once you get past two on two, the range of the weapons simply is not sufficient to allow striking of the opponent on the far side of your partner. With fighting weapon systems, much larger individual teams that contribute to all of the combat can be created because of the length of the spear and nature of the surrounding weapon systems.

In terms of application in the SCA and how fencing promotes selfishness, as a Calontiri, I will relate some anecdotal evidence based upon the attempts to add fencing in Calontir. I have paid a goodly amount of attention to the subject of fencing in Calontir. Initially, as I said, I was in favor it, but starting in 2003 I have switched sides. I fully admit this is anecdotal, yet the experiences I have had in the Knowne World have reinforced this impression.

In any case, several times Conde Fernando Rodriguez de Falcon posted a 12-step program for the addition of fencing in Calontir. Basically, you follow these 12 steps, and you’ll bring fencing to Calontir. As of this point, no one has completed these steps. The primary stumbling block seems to be in the work of creating the rules, assembling the marshallate, and generating the infrastructure needed for fencing. In short, Fernando basically said that if you do the work, you can have the sport. No one has completed these tasks.

Fernando fully admits that whomever does this will face political challenges. This is not surprising given the history of the fencing issue in Calontir (see [info]trimguy for a primer on fencing in Calontir) Nevertheless, anyone who wants fencing in Calontir must do the work themselves. A common thread from proponents of fencing in Calontir has seemed to be something along the lines of: “why won’t they let us have fencing?” but the real truth in response is: “why don’t you create it and give Calontir a reason to like it?” Many of the proponents of fencing who actually live in Calontir have not done the work, but instead expected the Earl Marshals to create the rules and the infrastructure for them. Not surprisingly, this has promoted the response of “why should I do a whole bunch of work for something I don’t like?” from many in Calontir.

In Calontir, at one point on the Calontir-fence YahooGroup, an anonymous poll was provided asking people’s position on fencing in Calontir. Here are the results:
I am IN FAVOR of Rapier Combat in Calontir. I am currently NOT ACTIVE in Calontir. I plan to be an ACTIVE participant. 2
I am IN FAVOR of Rapier Combat in Calontir. I am currently NOT ACTIVE in Calontir. I plan to be a CASUAL participant. 1
I am IN FAVOR of Rapier Combat in Calontir. I am currently NOT ACTIVE in Calontir. I do NOT plan participate. 0
I am OPPOSED to Rapier Combat in Calontir. I am currently ACTIVE in Calontir. I plan to be an ACTIVE participant. 0
I am OPPOSED to Rapier Combat in Calontir. I am currently ACTIVE in Calontir. I plan to be a CASUAL participant. 3
I am OPPOSED to Rapier Combat in Calontir. I am currently ACTIVE in Calontir. I do NOT plan participate. 10
I am OPPOSED to Rapier Combat in Calontir. I am currently NOT ACTIVE in Calontir. I plan to be an ACTIVE participant. 0
I am OPPOSED to Rapier Combat in Calontir. I am currently NOT ACTIVE in Calontir. I plan to be a CASUAL participant. 1
I am OPPOSED to Rapier Combat in Calontir. I am currently NOT ACTIVE in Calontir. I do NOT plan participate. 0
I DO NOT CARE if Rapier Combat is allowed in Calontir. I am currently ACTIVE in Calontir. I plan to be an ACTIVE participant. 0
I DO NOT CARE if Rapier Combat is allowed in Calontir. I am currently ACTIVE in Calontir. I plan to be a CASUAL participant. 0
I DO NOT CARE if Rapier Combat is allowed in Calontir. I am currently ACTIVE in Calontir. I do NOT plan participate. 0
I DO NOT CARE if Rapier Combat is allowed in Calontir. I am currently NOT ACTIVE in Calontir. I plan to be an ACTIVE participant. 0
I DO NOT CARE if Rapier Combat is allowed in Calontir. I am currently NOT ACTIVE in Calontir. I plan to be a CASUAL participant. 0
I DO NOT CARE if Rapier Combat is allowed in Calontir. I am currently NOT ACTIVE in Calontir. I do NOT plan participate. 0
I DO NOT live in Calontir. 3
I am IN FAVOR of Rapier Combat in Calontir. I am currently ACTIVE in Calontir. I plan to be an ACTIVE participant. 8
I am IN FAVOR of Rapier Combat in Calontir. I am currently ACTIVE in Calontir. I plan to be a CASUAL participant. 8
I am IN FAVOR of Rapier Combat in Calontir. I am currently ACTIVE in Calontir. I do NOT plan participate. 5

Total people who voted in favor of fencing: 24. That’s all who could be bothered to spend the few minutes to vote for fencing. Was every possible fencer on this list? No, of course not, but the list is essentially open to anyone, and only 24 people spent the less than 5 minutes it would take to log on to the group, become a member, vote, and leave the group. Was this publicized in the fencing community? I have no clue. If not, why not? Those in favor are pushing for something and were given the opportunity to get a bunch of friends to say they wanted it. This was their great chance to show that there was a great demand for fencing in Calontir.

The polls been open since March, 2007. Less than 20 people said that they would fence if Calontir had fencing. Only 4 of those said that they did not participate in Calontir but would if it had fencing. 4!

Let’s assume that there are actually three times that number (feel free to pick a reasonable multiplier). That’s still less than sixty potential fencers total. That’s 12 people only who would play if fencing was allowed. Assume they all bring a spouse. That’s 24.

24 people? These 24 people insist that the only way they’re going to play is if we let them do what they want to do? This seems selfish to me.

OK, so I will fully admit that these statistics are generally meaningless because of sample size but less than one quarter of those who happen to be on the list actually voted (41 out of 170) I personally voted Against but plan to be a Casual participant. If fencing is such a big deal in Calontir, why can't there be more than 30 people who would vote for it? Would you change your kingdom for less than 30 people?

Just out of curiosity, what is the percentage of people who fence at Pennsic as opposed to everything else? I'd be very curious to figure that number out and compare it to fighters.

In short, there is nothing in fencing that tends to promote working in groups, and both the historical background and implementation in the SCA tends to promote the one or few over the many. This is not to say that every fencer or fencing group is like that, merely that my experience suggests this to be the greater trend.

Finally misogyny. I have said this before and I have gotten a lot of “what the hell are you smoking, Rhodri?” Well, I have two responses to that. One, I mean it. Two, it’s some good stuff, wanna hit?

How many women fighters are there in your kingdom? I’ll tell you exactly how many there are in Calontir: none. You want to call Rhianwen a chick fighter? You go right ahead. Tell Her Majesty Sir Ariel that she’s not a fighter, but a woman fighter? How about going up to Cassandra? You go spout some crap about women-only tournaments to her. Please. But let me get marshmallows and popcorn first because the show's gonna rock.

In Calontir, people who fight are fighters, and our army includes not simply the fighters but the waterbearers, Soup Kitchen staff, and chirurgeonate. None of those titles have anything to do with gender.

Sadly, I have seen many instances of gender prejudice generating because of fencing. A fighter might say: “We should not authorize this person because she’s a small woman and will get hurt.” A fencer might say: “You should not fight, you should fence because as a small woman you’ll get hurt.”

I’ve heard both, or their equivalent, in multiple kingdoms from multiple fighters and multiple fencers.

Do I think most people feel this way? No, but this is a trend that I deeply despise. We probably all agree that such statements, from whomever, are wrong. Yet, it does happen, it's not a regional thing, it's not a proponent of fencing thing or a proponent of fighting thing, but rather it's something that has developed because some people perceive fencing to be a more woman-appropriate sport.

I have heard from women in multiple kingdoms that they have been discouraged from fighting. I have also heard from women that they have never felt so encouraged to fight as in Calontir. I believe that this difference is directly attributable to fencing.

So, look about your kingdom, and look at the number of female fighters as a percentage. Then come and watch the hats get taken off at Pennsic or Estrella or Gulf or Lilies.

I chose most of the words of my initial post with care. I did not say that fencing causes “divisiveness, selfishness, and misogyny.” I said fencing promotes those things. There is an important difference between those two words.

Those things are part of humanity, sad to say, and fencing in the SCA brings out but does not cause such behavior in both sides.

Let me reiterate. This is not a problem with fencers themselves. It is not a problem with fighters themselves. It is a problem with mixing the two cultures in the blender that is the SCA. It is a problem with mixing historical periods with vastly different viewpoints and cultures. Both sides are innocent. Both sides are guilty.

OK, some specific replies to responses on Liam’s thread:

[info]liamstliam asked: “But it is fencing that you perceive has harmed the kingdom or the arguments about fencing?”

I believe fencing has harmed the SCA as a whole, because we have this divisive issue that gets people mad at each other over a hobby.

[info]nomadwe said: Can you provide concrete examples of these, especially the last?

Edit: Oh, and I'm pretty sure that fencing doesn't tear at my soul, thanks very much. My soul likes fencing Just Damn Fine.

I tried to give some concrete examples, if those are not sufficient, I can elaborate further. As to the edit, it's not a question of your soul liking fencing, but rather that the simple fact that we are arguing so vehemently suggests to me that our souls are not at peace with this concept. If our souls are not at peace, then our souls are harmed. Maybe not yours directly, but I honestly feel that anything that hurts any of our souls hurts all of us.

The only argument that I truly find difficult to respond to is: “well so-and-so could do nothing if they could not fence.” I feel bad about that. That indeed tears at my soul. But how many people exist where such a statement is truly applicable? I refer back to the poll results. I feel very uncomfortable with the thought of saying to you: “change this just for me or those few like me.” I think, again, the placing of the few over the many hurts all of our souls, whomever does it.

[info]math5 said: Is that a "Some of my friends are fencers?"

I think that's the most prejudiced comment I've seen here.

I responded to this on the thread, but my original post was specifically not: “some of my best friends are fencers.” I stated then, as I state now, fencers, like everyone else in the SCA, are generally wonderful people. I know some asshats in the SCA. Some of those asshats are fencers, some are fighters, some are artisans, etc.

My point was is that we, as a whole, are generally really good people. We may disagree on this argument, but we, as a whole, are really really cool. I wanted to distinguish my arguments from attacks on fencers themselves, but focus on my overall argument, which is that I think fencing has hurt the SCA.

[info]silverstah said: Can you explain this more in detail? I don't see how fencing makes people act any more divisive, selfish, or misogynistic than any other activity commonly practiced in the SCA.

[info]ferriludent said: I would like to hear more about your thoughts on this "divisiveness, selfishness, and misogyny" position, as well.

I hope I have in the above epic post, but if not, feel free to ask for clarification.

[info]rufinia said: What the hell. I mean, really, what the hell. I can make the SAME argument against heavy fighting.

[info]purpura said essentially the same thing.

The point I was trying to make is that the presence of fencing makes all of us as a whole, fighters and fencers, act worse. Individually, everyone here may each act just as well as they would have, but I'm referring to bell curve kind of generalities. I point out that you yourself said in another thread: "I think Calontir has its head up its ass." Is this your normal behavior, or has your vehemence on this issue pushed you a bit? Maybe it is your normal behavior, and I'm the last person to criticize saying something rude, but is everyone who says something like that not without emotional influence based on the argument?

Yes, Rufinia, you can make a similar argument about fighting and I probably will agree with much of what you say. It's the mixture of differing cultures that I struggle with, not the actual activity. Had fencing been the root of the hobby, and fighting was the newcomer, the positions would be reversed and I would say the same things about fighting as I do about fencing now. Essentially, your argument is that I as a fighter have to change my ways and sacrifice time and resources for something that I don't want. And, at least in Calontir, that seems to be a request from a smallish minority which explains much of why it's not there.

[info]valr said: a bunch of things but since he was generally supporting my position I won’t really emphasize his here. However, this opened a new thread between him and [info]soldiergrrl. The end result of their discussion is that probably the “sneering at Calontir” comment earlier in Liam's responses was probably tongue in cheek.

OK, fair enough. Believe me, I say enough tongue in cheek things that sometimes get taken wrongly. I am, not surprisingly, a mouthy bastard. However, my initial response was, essentially, I’m sorry you feel that way, but please come to Calontir and meet us at Lilies or join us under the pavilion at Gulf or Pennsic or wherever. Soldiergrrl made the point that my reply might have been more appropriate to follow the “sneering” comment, but I was actually responding to Liam’s specific question about my opinions, not really responding directly to her or her husband.

Nevertheless, assume that someone was “sneering at your kingdom.” Would you be happy about it? Whatever the reason? Even if you agreed? Even if it was tongue in cheek? Would you always respond well to that? Or would such a comment be likely to occasionally cause divisiveness?

The “sneering” comment is not a big deal in itself, but I have, indeed, had people be rude to me because I’m from Calontir and we do not have fencing. That is, no matter what you want to say, divisive.

[info]math5 and [info]valr asked about misogyny. I hope I responded to that. Again, if you’re unclear, please ask for a follow-up.

[info]lumineaux said: Misogyny?!? In a Kingdom that has had just as many female Kingdom Rapier Marshals as male, I'm trying to figure out how fencing has promoting misogyny.

Selfishness? A huge number of our active high-level rapier fighters are also Pelicans for service to things above and beyond fencing. If anything, the need for fencers to be self-sufficient and independent has created a sub-culture of service within the East's rapier community.

I do Calontir the courtesy of letting it choose its own path and not "sneering" at them for their choice. Please do us the courtesy of refraining from ad hominem attacks when you don't know us.

Lumineaux raises a number of interesting and valid points. The misogyny wasn’t to say that women could not become Rapier Marshals. The misogyny has to do with a trend, again that I have seen personally from multiple fighters and multiple fencers in multiple kingdoms to direct women to become fencers because it’s “safer.” I personally think that such behavior, no matter who does it, is total crap. Sadly, it exists and it tends to promote (again, not cause) misogyny because it makes fighting more masculine and fencing more feminine, as opposed to simply two different sports.

That’s great to hear that a large number of your fencers have become Pelicans in service to their sport. Sadly, I have not seen enough of that thought process in terms of fencing in Calontir, though perhaps I mistaken. I’m perfectly willing to be proven otherwise, and I hope that happens in the future. I am always admiring of those people who sacrifice for the many as the Pelicans in this sub-culture in the East have proven themselves to have done so.

I am not sneering at any fencer or any kingdom. I am not making any personal attacks. I don’t think this is an issue that revolves around any one person. I am merely saying that fencing promotes such things, and while certain individuals and groups stand out and move away from these negative things, I believe that fencing has caused the center of the bell curve to shift on these issues in negative ways. In other words, I am specifically not attacking ad hominem, but rather I suppose ad rem or at the thing.

I'm also not telling any kingdom or person to change their ways. I simply was asked my opinion and I gave it, with no specific direction to any person or place to change something. There's no changing anything here, only that my preference is that the status quo remain the status quo.

Both [info]rufinia and [info]dulcinbradbury suggest that the gender balance is more on the fencing side than the fighting side because of upper body strength. No arguments, but that’s not the focus of my point on misogyny. Why do more women fight in your kingdom? Is it because they only wanted to fence, or because they were directed towards fencing away from fighting?

[info]goldsquare says: You and I agree in many ways - but we certainly don't agree in degree or detail, my friend.

I used to fence, and am an Iren Fera, and I can assure you that the confraternity of feeling in both parts of our culture is near-equivalent. I think your comments go much too far.

I think the native issue here is that fencing has followed its natural migration, and is now in direct conflict and competition with the SCA's primary form of combat.

That is why I agree that it has harmed the SCA as a whole, and may continue to do so, despite ITSELF being a pleasant and harmonious activity with some of the same best sort of people you can find in the Shieldwall.

The origin is not in the sector of period it re-creates. The origin is that the SCA has bred a competitor to classical combat, and that competition while natural, has to stop.

Goldsquare might very well have phrased what it takes me a book to write in one post. I suspect that my clarification will remove at least some of his doubts on my position.

I reiterate. I like fencing. A lot. It’s a blast.

Nevertheless, in the SCA context it causes problems.

[info]soldiergrrl said in response to goldsquare: I disagree and I feel that it would exclude a great number of our rapier inclined members.

There's nothing wrong with competition and it keeps everyone on their toes.

Granted, Ansteorran rapier fighters have worked long and hard to become valued members of our kingdom.

[info]lady_guenievre essentially stole my response to Soldiergrrl: Rapier *inclined* - see, I have to wonder, and this is actually an impossible thing to know, if there *was* no rapier if we would still have these members or whether they would have just chosen armored as "the only game in town". To remove rapier *now*, would certainly be exclusionary. But if it had never happened? That's an entirely different question.

Moot point, of course...

This lead the two of them onto a much larger discussion. One of their points was the fact that the rapier community is much more female-friendly than the fighting community. I think that this is evidence for my misogyny point. In Calontir, we encourage everyone to participate in fighting, male or female, and show how no matter how big or strong you are you can contribute to the fighting success of the kingdom. I think Calontir, because it does not have fencing, tends to encourage women to fight more than any other kingdom. The fighter community is, from what I've been told, very female-friendly in Calontir. I certainly work to welcome any new fighter, no matter what, to Calontir as is not only my personal preference but duty as a fyrdman of Calontir.

Nevertheless, both raise a lot of good points. One other point I do want to address is that Silverstah says that she and her husband play in the SCA because they like the SCA. I’m glad they do, I’m glad they’re here, but the intellectualism, research, and scholarship combined with the martial art are not, of necessity, exclusive to the SCA.

There are a number of posts I’m going to skip over but I want to respond to [info]lumineaux’s statement that in the East they’re glad they’re not shat upon. I reiterate, I am not saying that any individual is bad, only that the introduction of fencing exacerbated other things.

I say that because I have the perspective of a kingdom that does not have fencing while seeing how fencing works in other kingdoms. I feel that this gives me a better ability to see the forest, but of course you're welcome to feel that I'm not close enough to understand the trees.

Nevertheless, that post, and Lumineaux’s follow-up posts to Goldsquare emphasize the trials and tribulations that she has faced in her efforts.

That tells me that her efforts created some divisiveness in the East and that a lot of work was required to heal part of it, but given the vehemence of her position I don’t know if it’s completely healed yet or not. Lumineaux, I admire your work ethic.

Again, my comment assigned the blame to the activity in the SCA context, not to individuals and not to the activity as a whole. Individuals on both sides have done extremely rude things in the name of furthering their position. You might think my comment was another. I do not, given only that I specifically avoided ad hominem attacks and merely made a statement in response that I have at least some evidence to support.

[info]soldiergrrl said: When we live in Calontir, I'm sure we'll end up at Lillies. However, I take horrible offense at your supposition that "fencing has harmed the soul of the SCA."

Personally, I think it's brought a grace and class to the society.

(And in case, it's not clear, the gentle who sneered at Calontir is my beloved husband, and yes, he's played in Calontir. We just happen to be Ansteorran down to our bones.)

You’re sort of proving a couple of my points, actually. You think it’s brought a grace and class to the society. I think that it has reduced much of the grace and class that brought me into the SCA, as evidenced by the simple fact that tongue in cheek or not, I hardly think that sneering at a kingdom reflects grace and class. Both of us are correct in our opinions here, we just have different preferences. It’s essentially the same as saying that you like red and I like blue (azure, a cadwalladr passant or, within a bordure engrailed or :) )

You don’t have to live in Calontir to go to Lilies, by the way. For example, I know a bunch of people who are leaving the greater Toronto area for Lilies in a few days. I'm very jealous as I’m in Toronto right now and can’t get back to Lilies because of a class.

As an alternative, come to the Calontir encampment at Pennsic and I’ll give you a beer or cider. I’ll probably be at the next Gulf too. And I offer beer or cider to any and all that come around (if they’re over 21 of course)

OK, I think that’s all the responses to my post. I will follow with a few concluding statements.

First, I have generally declined to respond to all of the comments in the two posts of Liam. I suspect you all think this is long enough :) However, hopefully this has answered some questions.

I hope that those of you who read through this epic will realize that I am not against fencers, but against fencing in the SCA. It’s a subtle but real difference. Do I actively work against fencing? Nope, that horse done left the barn though I will freely admit I wish we’d shut the door. I was, however, asked my opinion so I gave it.

I am sure that the vast majority of the people who have responded to my post are friends that I have not yet met. I hope that many of you come visit me at Pennsic and we can debate this in a proper forum, over beer. To find me, come to N05, I’ll be the first tent in the Calontir courtyard along the road. I have a shade-fly, big coolers, and lots of bags for the empties :)
I’m perfectly willing to come visit you and drink your beer too (right Liam?). I’ll be there on the first Saturday so I’ll be there the whole time to discuss things and I love a good argument (not the automatic gainsaying of everything I said :) ).

Rhodri

PS No balloons were harmed in the making of this post

PPS If you offer me a beer, I prefer pale ales in the heat of Pennsic

PPPS Mad Anthony Wayne: "He'd charge hell, but only if you plan it."

PPPPS Wyrd bith ful araed

PPPPPS Think about where's man's glory most begins and ends, and say my glory was I had such friends

PPPPPPS Did I not warn you about epics?

PPPPPPPS Some will sell their dreams for small desires, Or lose the race to rats, Get caught in ticking traps, And start to dream of somewhere to relax their restless flight

PPPPPPPPS Free Luna!!!!



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[info]ferriludant
2009-06-10 02:18 am UTC (link)
Hi - first, let me say that:

1) I'm a fencer. And an occasional heavy list fighter (I'm not terribly good, but I follow my kingdom to war, lugging my spear). And a scribe, a cook, and general dogsbody when cleanup is required. Why list all of that? Because the presumption most anti-fencer people hold is that fencers only fence.
2) I do not care if Calontir ever allows fencing. I feel it's Calontir's choice.
3) You're welcome to your opinions, and I salute you for expressing them. Since you've been so good as to lay your thoughts out for us, I'm compelled to respond. Picking just a few points:


"Divisiveness. Sadly, this is the easiest one to prove. The simple fact that we’re having a discussion with as much emotion and deeply seated opinions on both sides is merely one point."

Actually, it's not proved at all. It was a pretty calm discussion - even when covering the potentially provocative "let's pick Crown by some other method" repeating thread.

All the emotion began after two comments: first, the provocative and unfortunate "sneering" remark, and then your comment accusing fencing itself of being bad for the society. I don't, in fact, dislike you, but you should take responsibility for the heat you helped to generate.

And please note: Most of the people who took issue with the "sneering" comment are fencers.

Your argument about competition for resources can also be applied to any other activity. Smaller groups may also not be able to support both heavy list and dance, or bardic, or pick anything. Are all of those "divisive" also?


But the misogyny argument is hardest to fathom. I've played in four kingdoms and two principalities, beginning in 1976. I haven't heard the "she should be allowed to play" line in twenty years or more... and I've never heard it in fencing. I'm not claiming that your reports are false - just that they're extremely unrepresentative.

Indeed, fencing is provably a much more level playing field for women than heavy list.


Edited at 2009-06-10 02:21 am UTC

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[info]rhodri2112
2009-06-10 02:50 am UTC (link)
It was and is a pretty calm discussion, but that's not always the case sadly. Included in that discussion was at least a "sneer" at Calontir and the statement that Calontir has its head up its ass. Even in jest, on a topic this hotly contested, that seems divisive to me. I also saw a great deal of emotion prior to my comment, though there's no doubt that my response did not calm the fire :)

I agree with the comment on the fencer response to the sneering. It's not that any individual is wrong here, but that it's so easy to offend the other side because we're all so emotional on that issue.

Again, divisive :)

I'm perfectly comfortable standing behind my opinions. I was asked my opinion. I answered. It's not the majority opinion in the Liamverse, so I'm expecting heat. Won't change whether I wanna drink beer with you :)

I get your point about other activities, but the fighting/fencing question is a bit different simply because they are essentially competing for exactly the same resources. A fighter can dance, perform (that's my thing), do research (another thing), and so on. However, if I go to an event I can generally do either fighting or fencing, but often not both. Waterbearers on one field may or may not be able to help on both, etc.

You may have an argument with archery, but they're not exactly the same and do not compete for the same resources in terms of space and time. You can often do both fighting/fencing and archery at the same event.

I hope that my misogyny thing is misrepresentative. I really hope so. I have, sadly, again heard it in multiple kingdoms from multiple people.

And it's not a question of level playing field per se, it's a question of providing the opportunity to participate. I will never be good at sewing, but I've never lacked the encouragement to do so by others.

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re: Prior to the addition of fencing, I'm betting more women fought. - [info]etherial, 2009-06-10 05:14 pm UTC
Re: re: Prior to the addition of fencing, I'm betting more women fought. - [info]rhodri2112, 2009-06-10 05:23 pm UTC
Re: re: Prior to the addition of fencing, I'm betting more women fought. - [info]rhodri2112, 2009-06-10 05:26 pm UTC
Re: re: Prior to the addition of fencing, I'm betting more women fought. - [info]etherial, 2009-06-10 05:29 pm UTC
Re: re: Prior to the addition of fencing, I'm betting more women fought. - [info]rhodri2112, 2009-06-10 05:33 pm UTC
Re: Prior to the addition of fencing, I'm betting more women fought. - [info]etherial, 2009-06-10 05:55 pm UTC

[info]chiara607
2009-06-10 02:25 am UTC (link)
Dude. Epic much? :)

Seriously: I think it was [info]goldsquare that said that the only way fencing happens in Calontir is if it can be conclusively shown that it would be good for the Kingdom, and that's pretty much where I am.

Mostly what I want to know is -- why is it so important to other Kingdoms that we have fencing in ours?

(Miss you...)

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[info]rhodri2112
2009-06-10 03:01 am UTC (link)
Your question is a very interesting point. Some of the most active people promoting fencing in Calontir don't even live in Calontir. That strikes me as odd.

And I look forward to making more SweetNLow, Embattled ;)

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[info]bernina2000de
2009-06-10 02:33 am UTC (link)
A king of the East suggested I, and Cornelia, (not that long ago actually) take up Combat archery because it is safer for us girls. We could be near the fighting without really getting into it. I told him I prefer to drive a scutum and it went over his head. (Bless him).

(I jumped on your misogyny).

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[info]valr
2009-06-10 02:39 am UTC (link)
Ahhhh! That's what you meant by misogyny.
I have to say, I would agree with that assessment. I've often heard "the cripple defense". As I read this, I realized how many women actually do subscribe, or were encouraged to subscribe to the idea of them being inherent "cripples".

I knew this would be a good argument.

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[info]elasait
2009-06-10 03:02 am UTC (link)
I have never fought and I will never fence or fight, but I *totally* hate this argument. Sometime, on another rant, I can give my "what-it-was-like-growing-up-before-Title-One" speech. Which has actually caused a few younger people of both genders to stop and think, on occasion.

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[info]elasait
2009-06-10 02:54 am UTC (link)
Good God, man, and I thought *I* was long-winded!

(36-page Domesday report, anyone?)

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[info]zephyrofgod
2009-06-10 03:36 am UTC (link)
It's all of that Anglo-Saxon epic stuff he's always performing rubbing off on him. (I jest, really.)

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[info]beckishadow
2009-06-10 03:13 am UTC (link)
I take particular issue with the selfishness assertion.

In the East, the Queen's Guard does the heavy lifting for setting up thrones, royal pavilions, unloading regalia, etc. The Queen's Guard is 90% (or more) made up of the rapier fighters. A decent number of the court heralds (for kingdom court) are rapier fighters. We run events. We man a large number of the guard shifts for our royal encampments. And when our kings asked rapier fighters to cross over and authorize in combat archery and rattan, many did (and our kings and queens have been lately joining us on the rapier field). We help marshal the rattan field battles at Pennsic. We set up hay bales, we carry water, and we clean up trash left after the fighters have gone home. (Is it *that* difficult to find a trash can???) We have tremendous pride in our kingdom, just like you do.

But we do and are more than that. It is rare that I find someone who *only* does rapier. Most of us are heavily involved in A&S, heraldry, and the other activities that fall under the SCA's umbrella. I'm not sure I understand how we're aloof and selfish, when we're no different from the majority of Scadians.

I am a kingdom officer (submissions herald) in addition to being my shire's herald and rapier marshal. Before that, I was shire chatelaine. And no, my practice doesn't compete with the rattan practice, and both are quite viable. I've been asked to try out rattan combat, and I'd be welcomed if I did. (For medical and time reasons, I cannot do so.) I helped build my shire's rapier practice from scratch and became our second marshal, now marshal in charge. For many of the newbies, we're the gateway to the rest of the SCA, so we take a lot of time exposing them to other activities and encouraging their other interests. I've found that my level of activity is not atypical in the East's fencing community. (In fact, I'm on the low end! It bothers me when I can't do more.)

Whether or not Calontir ever accepts rapier combat is immaterial. That's your kingdom's business. But don't invent controversy in ours, or decide that the words of a few asshats means that their attitudes are endemic.

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[info]rhodri2112
2009-06-10 03:25 am UTC (link)
I am grateful for all of the work that you have done. I have responded as such with my points from Lumineaux. Nevertheless, the nature of a single combat sport means that you have overcome that tendency, not that the tendency does not exist. I may or may not have proven my point, but my point has little to do with your excellent work.

Also, I never said aloof. I merely said that an individualistic sport tends to promote individualism/selfishness. That is, I think, a slightly different point than you responded to.

I totally understand your point about pavilion moving, etc. We in the Calontir Fyrd are usually the people called on to do that work here, so it is great to hear that the fencers are doing that in the East.

And I'm only trying to be argumentative in the sense of making a point, not in being a jerk, but if most fencers do other things in the SCA, then why should those people who will only participate because of the fencing have much input? There's not many of them, by your own point, and they don't want to contribute to the whole. You, obviously, are not like that, but there are a number of people who've mentioned that some only do the SCA because of fencing.

This may be more incoherent than I like because I'm up past my bedtime :)

I would love to continue this discussion at Pennsic over a beer.

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[info]evil_fionn
2009-06-10 04:17 am UTC (link)
Dude... You have so earned that lyre.
SRSLY.
I could go on...
**HUGS**, **SMOOCHES**, and I miss you HORRIBLY.
COME HOME SOON.

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[info]deafelis
2009-06-10 05:16 am UTC (link)
EDIT: Sorry, this belonged here, not there.

I came over from Liam's journal to read your response. I thank you for taking the time to explain and clarify your points. I now can understand and appreciate why you feel the way you do, where the post in Liam's journal left me confused and mildly upset.

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As [info]beckishadow described the rapier fighters of the East, I heard him describing and pictured the rapier fighters of Ansteorra. Rapier fighters are far from selfish, even if the sport does not easily lend itself to fighting as a cohesive unit.

I have not spent much time around the rapier fighters (too busy doing other things, mostly), but I have not seen that their sport promotes selfishness and selfish fighting any more or less than fighting in chivalric tournaments does. Our rapiers often form teams to accomplish other things (like pushing cars out of a muddy field after one rainy event). Our rapier fighters often fight as teams - the tactics are different, but the courtesy and honor are still there, and they still fight and win or lose as a team, not a collection of individual fighters.

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[info]gwenlianna
2009-06-10 05:32 am UTC (link)
fighting as a team... actually figuring out how to develop a really cohesive unit seems to be a frequent topic among the fencers of my acquaintance.

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[info]catlin
2009-06-10 06:33 am UTC (link)
I am not going to address all of this Rhodri, cause it is way late, but a couple things.

I have heard over and over again that fencing promotes selfishness.

The Blackhearts here in Wichita were the -first- to step foreward to offer to help TE Thomas and Cerridwen during their time as baronage, with event clean up, set up, things like that. If someone mentioned something needed done, (Someone who had not already openly scorned them solely for being fencers) they would drop anything they were doing to help.

When the majority of the fighters after a fair or event just wanted to go get a beer and clean up, the fencer kids jumped up and offered to help take down the shadeflies.

Their group has its issues, every one does. They are no better or worse then any group however in the society.

I remember a few Faires for instance where even though the Dancers danced every other hour, for a half hour to an hour, thus just as much as the fighters were fighting, (we did not get breaks between other dancers dancing to wait in line generally, we were on the field in the sun, sweating without waterbearers the whole time) we were told we had to work in another area of the dell. The fighters on the other hand got to relax and rest between fighting. This led to some of the same kind of division you are talking about between fencers and Fighters.

It is late, I am rambling... I guess what I am trying to say is it isn't the fencers making this a divisive issue, it is the personalities of the people in general on all three sides. If they were not argueing about the fencing, they would argue about something else. Calontir is family. When we are not being attacked from outside, we argue and fuss among ourselves like any family. When you attack from outside, everyone turns on you. In this case, that outsider is the fencers. At other times its been different countries, different hobbies.

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[info]rhodri2112
2009-06-10 03:18 pm UTC (link)
But was this not divisive? Was this not selfish? The point is that fencing, in the mix of the SCA promotes those things, not necessarily because the fencers are more selfish or divisive.

I reiterate that my feelings on fencing changed once I started traveling. I like fencing, but do not want it in Calontir not because it's an outside thing, but because I do not like what it has done to other kingdoms.

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Data Points, or Gasoline?
[info]minstrlmummr
2009-06-10 12:58 pm UTC (link)
Greetings, here from Liam's LJ. IANAF, IZ MINSTREL.

I regret to hear of the kind of selfishness or misogyny you've experienced.
I wish you knew the fencers I know 8)

Having observed from these latter days what a well-oiled machine of self-sufficiency the EK fencing community currently is, the notion that somewhere there were fencers insisting that something has to be provided from outside with minimal effort on their part was, to say the least, alien. After the relentless, drama-free fun that was the last Kings and Queens' Fencing Championships, I saw the kind of teamwork that inspired King Lutr of the Midrealm to award their order of the Dragon's Teeth to the EK fencing team last Pennsic. Grimm the Skald wrote a poem about it--I hope you get to hear it someday 8)

Full disclosure: I live in a Crown Province whose Viceroy is one of those fencing Pelicans to which lumineaux and others referred. AFAIK, he is not in favor of imposing fencing on places which don't want it. He's not in favor of a fencing-only Peerage. He's just in favor of fencing. If the behavior he and others like him inspires a self-sufficiency model for fencing in other places, then I predict arguments/train wrecks like those cited here and elsewhere would rapidly fade into well-deserved oblivion.

Full disclosure II: Said Viceroy also fights rattan, but selectively, because of high-calibration issues which have nothing to do with the existence of fencing and everything to do with how rattan fighters want to fight here.

Busy-bee Viceroy also wrote a verse about fencers (since IANAF) for a march I wrote. The seeds that grew into that march were nurtured by a discussion on an EK list about how nifty it would be to teach/learn a few songs we could all sing together "like the Calontiri do" 8) (and it's frankly a badge of honor here to insist that "We Don't Do NOTHIN' Here Just Because OTHER Kingdoms Do It, In Fact That's The Reason I'll NEVER Do It"...)

We hope to use the march at Opening Ceremonies, with horns/shawms and drums 8)

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Re: Data Points, or Gasoline?
[info]evil_fionn
2009-06-10 02:11 pm UTC (link)
"Full disclosure II: Said Viceroy also fights rattan, but selectively, because of high-calibration issues which have nothing to do with the existence of fencing and everything to do with how rattan fighters want to fight here."

Actually... Calibration issues tend to arise (or so I've heard via the fighters in other Kingdoms, and what I've witnessed myself) in Kingdoms where fencing has been introduced.
From what I was told and seen, by encouraging people to who are smaller, weaker in upper body strength, or older to go into fencing rather than armored combat, it knocks out the lower end of the bell curve of what is "acceptable" in armored combat. The "guys" (to use a non-gender specific label) who remain in armored combat at that point do not feel the need to calibrate their blows as they once did... the scale by which their blows are measured are skewed upwards. Which has the effect of driving even more people out of the arena of armored combat and into fencing... which once more skews the scale, which once more drives more people out of armored combat... and so on and so forth. They feel they can play rougher, and the prevailing attitude becomes, to put it in southern speak, "If ya can't run with the big dawgs, stay on the porch".
It becaomes a pretty self-destructive cycle.
This is not to say that this situation is the FAULT of the fencers... rather an unfortunate effect that armored fighters could stop if they wanted to. There's just no direct need for them to do it, because... well, if the person can't take they way the game is played, they can always go fence, right?

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Re: Data Points, or Gasoline? - [info]owynn, 2009-06-10 02:22 pm UTC
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Re: Data Points, or Gasoline? - [info]ferriludant, 2009-06-10 03:21 pm UTC
Re: Data Points, or Gasoline? - [info]evil_fionn, 2009-06-10 03:38 pm UTC
Re: Data Points, or Gasoline? - [info]math5, 2009-06-10 04:42 pm UTC
Re: Data Points, or Gasoline? - [info]rhodri2112, 2009-06-10 04:49 pm UTC
IKA, again - [info]minstrlmummr, 2009-06-10 04:13 pm UTC
Re: Data Points, or Gasoline? - [info]rhodri2112, 2009-06-10 04:15 pm UTC

[info]lady_guenievre
2009-06-10 02:04 pm UTC (link)
I think the selfishness is a VERY Calontiri attitude, though I understand you have traveled more than that. The Calontiri "Recipe for a successful army" seems to read "unity is the key to victory", while if you asked an Atlantian, it'd read more "Become a bada** on the tourney field and, with a little extra melee practice on the side, it'll translate to the war field". (I exaggerate for effect; we actually do have more war practice and tactics than that, but the point remains.)

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[info]rhodri2112
2009-06-10 03:26 pm UTC (link)
I'm unclear what you mean here. At first glance it seemed like you said that "Calontir is selfish." At second glance it seems like you mean that my perception of selfishness relates to the fact that I'm viewing things through a Calontir lens of army teamwork. There might be other glances too :) Can you please expand?

And I reiterate, I did not say that the selfishness only comes from the fencers, merely that fencing promotes selfishness in the SCA. A very distinct difference.

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[info]dreda
2009-06-10 02:21 pm UTC (link)
Another interloper from Liam's journal - and just here to say that I have lived in Meridies (during the fencing ban, to boot) and the East in my seventeen years in the SCA, and I have never EVER been told that, as a woman, I should stick to fencing because it was "safer." I've tried both rattan and rapier and concluded that combat just isn't really my thing, but that was wholly my own decision.

An Eastern count who is a dear friend to both myself and my lady was nearby one Pennsic when she expressed curiosity about rattan combat. Within five minute he had cleared a space in camp and was teaching her the basic theories of spear combat as an intro - and I have found his attitude of cheerful encouragement the norm, not an outlier. I understand that we all draw our conclusions based on those we meet - and there are enough people in the Society for us each to meet wholly separate groups of people. But I would submit that I have met least enough experienced Eastern rattan fighters who happily encourage women to join their ranks to make me find your conclusions on the subject of misogyny a little baffling.

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[info]rhodri2112
2009-06-10 03:32 pm UTC (link)
That's great to hear, and I have no problem with your decision. Also, I know a lot of other great fighters in a lot of kingdoms that acted in just that manner. I probably didn't emphasize it enough that the misogyny that I've seen is, quantitatively, significantly less than the acts of kindness and generosity.

Nevertheless, I could introduce you to multiple women who I know have experienced this sort of thing, and if it were only in one kingdom, or one person, or one fighter, then I would agree that we're dealing with an individual small problem. However, sadly, that does not seem to be the case.

I'm glad that you have not experienced such behavior, but hate that such behavior has ever happened.

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(no subject) - [info]dreda, 2009-06-10 03:37 pm UTC
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(no subject) - [info]dreda, 2009-06-10 03:53 pm UTC
re: misogyny
[info]etherial
2009-06-10 03:38 pm UTC (link)
Sadly, I have seen many instances of gender prejudice generating because of fencing. A fighter might say: “We should not authorize this person because she’s a small woman and will get hurt.” A fencer might say: “You should not fight, you should fence because as a small woman you’ll get hurt.”

This does not say to me "fencing promotes misogyny". It says to me "some fencers are misogynists".

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Re: re: misogyny
[info]rhodri2112
2009-06-10 03:51 pm UTC (link)
In a sense that's true. It also says "some fighters are misogynists."

The point is that fencing gives people, whatever they do in the SCA, the opportunity to direct women to a "safer" sport. Which I think is crappy thing.

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Re: re: misogyny - [info]etherial, 2009-06-10 03:59 pm UTC
Re: re: misogyny - [info]rhodri2112, 2009-06-10 04:07 pm UTC
Re: re: misogyny - [info]etherial, 2009-06-10 04:16 pm UTC
Re: re: misogyny - [info]rhodri2112, 2009-06-10 04:23 pm UTC
Re: re: misogyny - [info]bernina2000de, 2009-06-10 04:07 pm UTC

[info]goldsquare
2009-06-10 05:49 pm UTC (link)
Damn you.

I cannot take up the time that reading your comments would take, and so INTERESTING, so evil, so tempting, oh, too much work, woe. :-)

I understand your points better, and we still have much to talk about. Woe. I go to do more work now. I've got this discussion bookmarked, I'll try to return to it.

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[info]janeelliot
2009-06-10 05:55 pm UTC (link)
I have to say, on the misogyny argument, that you are about one thing. I was told when I started in the SCA, in no uncertain terms, I that I should not fight. I was a 16 year old female, a bit on the small side, and I was informed that I would have the crap beaten out of me if I dared to step on the list field. I was advised to go do other things and patted on the head.

Did one of those other things include fencing. No, because Caid didn't have fencing in 1977. In, I believe, 1976 women were 'allowed' to fight by the BOD. That's the only place I ever felt true misogyny in the SCA, and I've never forgotten it.

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[info]rhodri2112
2009-06-10 06:01 pm UTC (link)
I wish I knew quite how to respond to your reply. Simply saying "I'm sorry" seems useless but I got nothing else.

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(no subject) - [info]janeelliot, 2009-06-10 06:31 pm UTC
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(no subject) - [info]beckishadow, 2009-06-10 09:26 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]rhodri2112, 2009-06-11 03:39 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]rhodri2112, 2009-06-11 03:22 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]janeelliot, 2009-06-11 04:17 am UTC
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(no subject) - [info]dreda, 2009-06-11 01:29 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]goldsquare, 2009-06-11 01:35 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]dreda, 2009-06-11 01:54 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]goldsquare, 2009-06-11 02:20 pm UTC
Hear hear!
[info]hereward
2009-06-10 06:52 pm UTC (link)
I'm Hereward, the first Fera, and I endorse Rhodri's statement.

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[info]dubhease
2009-06-10 07:19 pm UTC (link)
As someone who lives in a really fencing-prolific area of Ealdormere, I found your post really intersting. Right now, I'm not sure if I agree or not, but it is a different perspective.

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[info]rhodri2112
2009-06-11 03:14 am UTC (link)
Thank you

I'm not worried all that much if people agree or not. I could easily be wrong. It has happened. Once, I think ;)

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[info]suelet
2009-06-10 08:21 pm UTC (link)
You may have an argument with archery, but they're not exactly the same and do not compete for the same resources in terms of space and time. You can often do both fighting/fencing and archery at the same event.

I quibble slightly...

Archers require water and food too, and are generally at the furthest point possible from all other activities at an event, meaning they are more often than not overlooked in terms of support. We don't tend to acquire an audience either: no one wants to go out to the archery range unless they have to.
As a result, the archery community tends to be almost entirely self supporting.
We take our own gack, we supply our own water, we are often in the position of cutting down grass and cutting out brush for our ranges, we bring our own sunshades and provide our own tournament prizes.

We don't compete for "resources", because the reality of the situation for us is that if we want them, we have to create our own.

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[info]j_v_lynch
2009-06-10 08:32 pm UTC (link)
Hi Rhodri,
I got directed here by self_serve and I was wondering if would mind verifying if I have correctly understood your position.

You feel that Fencing is bad for the SCA because it promotes:
1. Divisiveness by
a. generating a difference of opinion over whether there should be fencing or not and
b. causing competition with fighting for limited resources
2. Selfishness by being a solo activity and thus not encouraging a team mindset
3. Misogyny by providing an activity that women can be encouraged to do instead of fighting

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[info]rhodri2112
2009-06-11 03:24 am UTC (link)
Essentially, you have stated my position :)

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[info]mahault
2009-06-10 08:47 pm UTC (link)
I would agree with most of what you've said here, but not exactly as you've said it.

I support the position that fencing is divisive. What I mean by that is I believe they are certainly a fringe group that is parasitical and ultimately uninvolved in my Kingdom (Ealdormere), but they are no different than the pirates and belly-bunnies we see everywhere. I think that if they chose to be more involved in SCA-related activities, like A&S, working as staff at events or taking offices, I'd be more supportive of them. Most of what I've observed is the tendency for them to show up, use the space the SCA has rented and then leave. Maybe if they, as a community, participated more actively in my club, I'd see their value. As it stands, I feel that they take up space and display a complete disregard for the rules, traditions and culture of our Kingdom.

A great example of this was the absolute refusal of fencers to stop fencing during our most recent Crown Tourney. TRM's ordered that nothing other than the tourney was to be going on, especially during the finals. After being told more than once, these folks continued to fence. I don't care how much fun it is; this type of discourtesy is typical of the fencing community in Ealdormere. If they want to be welcome and considered a part of our club, they should act like it.

Misogyny- I've encountered very little of that in this Kingdom. I think it's perhaps more a perception than a reality up here. Of course, it could be that people are a little afraid to tell me 'no', but I doubt it. Most of the gender biases I've encountered have been while out of Ealdormere or Calontir- mostly at Pennsic. I feel very welcome to fight at home and at Lilies! I don't think fencing leads to this behaviour; I think people are going to do this no matter the hobby they're in. Also, anyone who lets a little discrimination stop them from doing what they love is a damned fool.

I do not support fencing simply because I do not appreciate it's current parasitical nature in our Kingdom. If our fencers acted like they are members, not over-staying guests, I would welcome them with open arms. Dancers, jugglers, singers, artisans and merchants are all welcome if they play by our rules. Fencers would be as well, if they do the same.

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[info]beckishadow
2009-06-10 09:31 pm UTC (link)
So once again, why not come down on those few asshats and smack some courtesy into them? Put the blame on the individuals, not the community as a whole. Get the fencing leadership to police their own if you have to.

I'm willing to bet that a large number of the fencing community in Ealdormere DO contribute to the kingdom as a whole. I truly doubt that all of them are "parasitic".

Edited at 2009-06-10 09:33 pm UTC

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(no subject) - [info]mahault, 2009-06-10 11:25 pm UTC

[info]martukka
2009-06-10 11:44 pm UTC (link)
Fascinating thread.

The first thing that comes to mind is:

"Rapier's don't kill people, people kill people!"

These ills will exist regardless of the context. I would rather they be exposed and expunged wherever possible. If rapier allows this to happen, I welcome it as a positive force.

I accept your arguments, but respectfully disagree with your conclusions. That an activity may promote certain aberrant individual behavior is, to my mind, not a valid reason to exclude that activity.

Thankfully, Corpora allows Kingdoms to make their own decision. Offending my, or anyone else's, sensibilities should not be an acceptable excuse to force change.


Disclaimer: I am from the Liamverse, a heavy fighter and young in this hobby.

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[info]rhodri2112
2009-06-11 03:28 am UTC (link)
Please note, I did not say that I wanted to exclude the activity. It's here, and probably here to stay. I merely stated the ills that I believe it has promoted. I specifically did not make any commentary about what is to be done, as I don't think there is anything to be done :)

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(no subject) - [info]martukka, 2009-06-11 10:40 am UTC

[info]lumineaux
2009-06-11 04:57 am UTC (link)
I have *never* seen a woman pushed into fencing when she was really interested in rattan. I fought for several years, long before the East had any female knights at all, and while we were correctly told about the disadvantages we'd have to overcome, we were never sent packing.

I have seen women choose fencing voluntarily over rattan because they themselves fear the effects of the size and strength disparity. I have seen men make the same choice. Getting hit by a pole arm swung by a 300' guy twice your size is scary scary stuff. Rational people can decide it is not for them.

However, I've also seen women who entered into martial sport by fencing first use that to work up the courage to enter into rattan combat and do well in it.

Your posited exampel of misogyny assigns blame to the wrong place. When someone pats a woman on the head, treating her like a girl, and sends her off to do something other than fight IT IS NOT the fault of the activity she's being sent to. It's the twit who is treating her as being unable to make a rational choice on her own. If fencing didn't exist, it would be, go tend to your embroidery, Ermentrude, and let the boys play with their sticks. That doesn't make embroidery misogynistic. That makes the men who are talking jerks.

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[info]goldsquare
2009-06-11 12:57 pm UTC (link)
It's nice to see someone else who understands Rhrodri's point carefully, and rejects it for much the same reasons that I do.

I don't believe it encourages misogyny, except insofar as it gives misogynists a different easy target. They might even think they are progressive for sending "the girls" to a combat sport. But that's more a symptom of jerkdom, than something intrinsic to fencing.

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[info]aztecknight
2009-06-11 05:52 am UTC (link)
Short answers:

I understand most of the things you have said. I can see the logic, but I think it is flawed. Sword fighting is sword fighting and different ways of doing it are fine. I look at a rapier, a rattan broadsword and a two handed great sword as simply three different sword that I should be skilled with. I can not fight with any two of them at the same time, so I have to choose which to concentrate on.

The other quick answer is to the melee thing. I really need to introduce you to Anton and the Thieves of Hearts. At a Ravenslake practice in the midrealm they have dedicated melee every week. Usually about 2/3 of the practice. The armored fighters in that group only have melee practice in the summer and then it is maybe 1/3 of the practice. Rapier melee makes great sense and tactical in things like bar rooms and building to building fighting. The kind of places you would have fought with your sword and no armor.

I know of groups that would have fallen to nothing if not for the rapier fighters. And the rapier people made sure that the armored fighters had room to play. Many of them strap on armor to fight war, because that is when you wear armor. At least if you are in the 16th century.

The one thing I agree most strongly with you on though is that no one in Calontir did the work properly. I remember when it would be a cold day in hell when the Middle added rapier. Master Inchihngham, Master Alfred, and THL Maire would not give up and did all the work. That is what Calontir has lacked.

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[info]evil_fionn
2009-06-12 11:39 am UTC (link)
"I know of groups that would have fallen to nothing if not for the rapier fighters. And the rapier people made sure that the armored fighters had room to play."

I understand what you're saying, and I can see the benefits of what you're saying to the Kingdom. I, however, have witnessed exactly the opposite thing in a Shire to the south of us, where rapier fighters have pushed the armored fighters out, formed a household, taken over the offices, and pretty much spent their time sniping at the heavy fighters and pulling political power plays. I have seen THOSE particular rapier fighters NOT allow fighters space for practice, NO time on the field at "their" events and hoarding of shire resources (waterbearers, etc) for rapiers only. What started as a shire with ten to fifteen armored fighters with 5 or 6 rapier guys now have three armored fighters and 15 to 20 rapier guys. I know, deep in my heart, this has more to do with the political climate, the culture down there and the personalities involved.
But what I mean to say in a round about way is that yes, there will be good examples of what rapier fighters are, and there will be horrendous examples of what rapier fighters are. You can use bad behavior or good behavior to support whichever side you choose to support.
But mainly, what this particular discussion comes down to is that a lot of people are feeling like this decision to push Calontir into rapier is coming from the outside, without taking our wishes into consideration. And that's where the rub is with a lot of people... That so many who don't live in Calontir are trying to force their wants on us. As it was once put to me... "Calontir is the friendliest bunch of xenophobes you're ever gonna meet."

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[info]quixote317
2009-06-12 04:48 am UTC (link)
I'm going to skip the 150+ comments in this thread and just post my thoughts. If I'm repeating a point that others have made, so be it.

1) You're arguing from authority when you proceed to list all of your accomplishments.

2) You're showing observer bias when you go on about all the negative behaviors that you've witnessed from rapier fighters. Simply put, every-time you see it, it re-enforces your opinion, but you're *ignoring* all the positive examples you see. You do the exact opposite with heavy fighters, excusing their negative aspects and counting all the positive ones.

Observer bias is a perfectly normal and human thing to do, but it doesn't prove anything and you really should try to work past it.

3) You've been accused of making the "some of my best friends are X" argument and you've denied it. Except here's the thing: That's exactly what you're doing. You can go on and on about how *individual* rapier fighters are great upstanding people, but the whole point of this post is "fencing harms the SCA because it's divisive, selfish, and misogynistic. Make that same argument about an identifiable group and you'd be justly accused of racism no matter how many minorities you called friends.

Now on to some of your specific arguments.

On divisiveness: You call them divisive because of all the people who objected to your arguments? Dude, people *defending themselves* when you attack them is not evidence of divisiveness, it's evidence that they want to *defend themselves*. You don't get to hit people and then claim they're violent when they *hit back*.

On misogyny: You're seriously suggesting that encouragement for women to fight rapier is evidence that the *rapier* fighters are misogynistic? I notice in you laundry list of Kingdoms that An Tir wasn't listed. I've yet to see a female discouraged from any martial art if they wanted to pursue it.

On selfishness: Rapier fighters are selfish because they're boastful and practice duels. You do know that this is all an elaborate piece of make-believe right? They're playing a role out of The Three Musketeers, just like a heavy fighter is playing a role out of Ivanhoe. You realize that a Civil war re-enactor or a Roman Centurion could make the exact same arguments against SCA heavy fighters? "Good heavens, they engage in single combat rather then support their legion? How selfish".

On polling as evidence of apathy: Only 24 people voted in favour. I note that only 41 *voted at all*. Seriously, you'd get this kind of response on *any* poll. It could be "free beer for all" and you'd get a dozen opinions and a small turnout. That's the nature of the Society.

Summary: You're whole post boils down to this:
You know that thing you do in the SCA. I don't think you should do it because it's not that thing *I* do in the SCA and I'd rather more people paid attention to this super thing I like.
I don't think you're a bad person, I'm not angry at you. I am a little sad that you're remarkably biased and can't even recognize that the bias exists, much less that it colours your perceptions so much.

However, that doesn't mean that I'm not willing to say that, on this topic, you're simply wrong.

You've acknowledged in your post that you've witnessed all of the "sins" of rapier in other aspects of the society. At the same time you've acknowledged that positive traits in other parts of the society exist in the rapier community. You need to step back and seriously consider the implications of this and what it means to your arguments.

Most of all you need to concentrate on doing what you want in the society and ignore what everyone else is doing. I'm not into A&S, do I care if people pursue it? Not at all, I think they should follow their passions and I'm thankful that the SCA is diverse enough to include so many different facets. If the group decides it wants to split it's resources, that only means that people are enjoying themselves. It doesn't mean *you* have to split *your* resources. Nobody is pointing a gun at your head saying "support rapier" - ignore it if it's not your cup of tea.

And if you're at Estrella next year, look me up (James Q, Avacal/An Tir), I love a good debate.

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[info]evil_fionn
2009-06-12 11:52 am UTC (link)
"They're playing a role out of The Three Musketeers"
Just a quick point that my husband made to me... Musketeers are called musketeers because they primarily used... Muskets. Not rapiers. Rapiers were their backup weapon.
So... when someone figures out a way to do black powder safely, are we gonna encourage that as well?
Just asking...
Secondly... I don't see many SCA members wanting to force Civil War guys or the Roman guys to open their game to them, the way that rapiers have tried to go about it here in Calontir, or pressure us from outside Calontir.
Thirdly:
"Most of all you need to concentrate on doing what you want in the society and ignore what everyone else is doing." If someone was wanting to change an aspect of your Kingdom's culture without Kingdom wide consent, or with only the consent of a small minority who were not too willing in the past to do the work necessary to implement that change and make it easier for everyone... How well would you ignore it?

As you stated, I'm not mad at you, I'm just asking you how you would react.

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[info]lumineaux
2009-06-13 02:55 am UTC (link)
I'm sorry for not responding to the points you raised specifically to me sooner. I've had some bad real life stuff happen in the past few days and just ran out of energy for a heated debate. I'd be more than happy to continue the discussion at another, better, time; but now is not that time.

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[info]rhodri2112
2009-06-13 07:15 am UTC (link)
I'm very sorry to hear about the bad life stuff. I really hope we can meet at Pennsic over some of my beer, and I hope everything's great by then.

Again, I'll be in N05. At the very least, I hope we can meet. I'm perfectly willing to meet and chat about non-controversial stuff like how cool beer is :)

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